Finding Calm in the Holiday Swirl: A Guide to Grounding Yourself with Grace
The holidays can feel like a whirlwind—joyful moments mingled with overwhelm, connection laced with exhaustion. When the swirl starts to feel like too much, remember this: you have the capacity to anchor yourself. These simple, grounding techniques rooted in mindfulness are your pause button, a moment to reclaim your calm, and an invitation to find grace amid the bustle.
1. Breathe into the Present Moment
Take a deep breath right now—yes, now.
Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of four, hold for four, and exhale through your mouth for six. Repeat three times. Notice how your shoulders soften and your chest feels lighter.
Your breath is always with you—a quiet, steady rhythm to guide you back to now.
2. Name Five Things You Can See
When the stress feels overwhelming, gently turn your attention outward.
Look around you and name five things you can see. A candle flickering. The lines on your hand. A speck of sunlight on the floor. This simple act reminds you of the world around you, anchoring you in the present.
3. Let Your Hands Speak
Engage your senses by touching something grounding—a soft blanket, a smooth stone, or even running your hands under warm water. Feel the texture, temperature, and weight. Let your hands remind you that you’re here, steady and strong.
4. Write a Gentle Reminder
Grab a notebook, sticky note, or the back of an envelope, and write yourself a short, kind message.
Maybe it’s: “I can do this, one moment at a time.”
Or: “I deserve rest, and it’s okay to take it.”
Sometimes, seeing these words in your own handwriting can feel like a hug from within.
5. Ground Yourself with Gratitude
Pause and find one thing you’re grateful for in this exact moment.
It doesn’t have to be grand—maybe it’s the comfort of your favorite sweater or the sound of a loved one’s laughter nearby. Let this small gratitude light a spark of peace within you.
6. Move Your Body Gently
If the swirl feels stuck in your body, let it flow out.
Stand up, stretch your arms overhead, or take a slow, deliberate walk around the room. Even a few minutes of movement can help reset your energy and clear your mind.
7. Hold onto a Phrase
Carry a mantra with you, like a pocket-sized piece of calm.
Try: “I am enough, just as I am.”
Or: “I release what I cannot control.”
Repeat it silently or aloud when your mind feels cluttered. Let the words settle over you like a soft blanket.
8. Pause with Purpose
If the world feels noisy, step away for just two minutes. Close your eyes, place a hand over your heart, and take a moment to simply be. Remind yourself: I am allowed to pause. I am allowed to rest.
An Invitation to Grace
These small actions are gifts you can give yourself whenever you need them. They’re not about “fixing” anything but about creating moments of ease, even in the midst of chaos. Remember, you are not alone in feeling the swirl, and you are fully capable of finding your way through it—with grace, one grounding moment at a time. And if you are looking for a complete plan for managing the stresses of Holidays with go a deeper in this guide.
Written with care for you by Colorado Women’s Center—because your well-being matters, always.